Comments on: Who are you doing it for? http://www.zinnia.org/weblog/2008/who-are-you-doing-it-for/ Everyday tales of a lyrical life Thu, 27 Oct 2011 04:09:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Steve http://www.zinnia.org/weblog/2008/who-are-you-doing-it-for/#comment-167 Steve Tue, 15 Apr 2008 03:03:40 +0000 http://www.zinnia.org/weblog/2008/who-are-you-doing-it-for/#comment-167 Thank Gooness Joy likes to talk philosophy too. Her question to herself is a good one for each of us to ask ourself: What would I be doing if I was alone? And if I could be doing anything I wished what would it be? It took me two weeks to just spend 2 minutes thinking myself into that situation and coming up with an answer. Do we avoid knowing? And do two lives exist that actually have the same dream or, at least make room for each dream? Compromise tends to rule in order for relationships to remain. I do believe it possible especially when love is part of the dream. Not that one need sacrifice and one thrive; although strength and courage is needed to resist giving in and mistaking self neglect for an expression of love. Love of self must precede love of another. When we look after ourself and another we can warp and woof up a beautiful piece of fabric! Thank Gooness Joy likes to talk philosophy too.
Her question to herself is a good one for each of us to ask ourself: What would I be doing if I was alone? And if I could be doing anything I wished what would it be? It took me two weeks to just spend 2 minutes thinking myself into that situation and coming up with an answer. Do we avoid knowing? And do two lives exist that actually have the same dream or, at least make room for each dream? Compromise tends to rule in order for relationships to remain. I do believe it possible especially when love is part of the dream. Not that one need sacrifice and one thrive; although strength and courage is needed to resist giving in and mistaking self neglect for an expression of love. Love of self must precede love of another.
When we look after ourself and another we can warp and woof up a beautiful piece of fabric!

]]> By: V http://www.zinnia.org/weblog/2008/who-are-you-doing-it-for/#comment-163 V Mon, 14 Apr 2008 03:12:17 +0000 http://www.zinnia.org/weblog/2008/who-are-you-doing-it-for/#comment-163 What a special sister and daughter you must be. As far a better life, the grass is always greener on the other side. The problem with that is once you reach the other side then you have only to look back at the "other side" again!!!!!! What a special sister and daughter you must be.

As far a better life, the grass is always greener on the other side. The problem with that is once you reach the other side then you have only to look back at the “other side” again!!!!!!

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